I’m feeling particularly joyful today and want to talk about successes. There have been some small and large successes in my life lately and it has gotten me to thinking about how people celebrate successes. Celebration of success is so very important, even when we are talking about little wins like saving a few bucks at the grocery store. I believe that is it imperative that we find something to celebrate every day.
Now, I’m not talking an open-a-bottle-of-champagne celebration, but rather small celebrations like calling your best friend to share the news, having a sweet treat, or putting a post-it up on the fridge. We have to feel comfortable congratulating ourselves on good things that happen in our lives if we are truly going to be successful. Really big wins like landing a big promotion, graduating, getting married, opening a new business, and etcetera don’t happen every day. Those things take years of planning, preparation, and hard work. It will sometimes feel like the ultimate goal is so far off that you can’t even visualize what it will be like when you reach your destination. By celebrating the small wins on the way to the big one, we can get a taste of what we will be feeling at the end. It is part of our motivation and inspiration to keep plugging away so we can finally throw a big party and spend all day smiling so hard our faces hurt.
If you are having a hard time finding ways to celebrate your small wins, try celebrating another person’s win. If your partner comes home and has had a great day at work, say , “congratulations!” Or if your child scores well on a test at school, tack it up on the fridge. This will start to help you see how to celebrate yourself and can start building a culture of celebration in your family.
Don’t be shy, share a win with us! What are you celebrating today?